tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1699308949188782452.post3150873727214345325..comments2023-03-22T16:02:37.707-07:00Comments on 365 Days and Counting: Day 167Kindlehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00278232018915108888noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1699308949188782452.post-59256975913946212032011-05-22T11:38:52.982-07:002011-05-22T11:38:52.982-07:00My husband feels the same way that Zee does. I do...My husband feels the same way that Zee does. I don't talk about him much in my blog or online at all, almost in the sense that he doesnt exist. I think that holds me back from truly talking about what life with a soldier is like, and very much edits my writing. There are many times that I want to hop on and pour my heart out via blog, but I don't because I dont want to invade his privacy or put our business on blast. Argh. I do see where Zee is coming from, I see where you are coming from as well thus why 365 is the theme of your blog. I think you guys can find a balance that suits you both.reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488516270916094854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1699308949188782452.post-39654128647813837012011-05-21T23:23:09.444-07:002011-05-21T23:23:09.444-07:00Zee has got a ton more to loose than you do, girl....Zee has got a ton more to loose than you do, girl. You've really got to think of it coming from the Army side of things. PERSEC is very important... And I don't know if anyone has ever showed you OPSEC either... They are both very super important. I hope that Zee is not deployed... because counting down to her arrival back home if she is deployed is a big no no. :/<br /><br />I think that Zee should also think about things coming from your side. It is reasonable not to want her picture out there while Don't Ask Don't Tell is still in effect and men and women are still getting in trouble/kicked out for it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16919079134282687094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1699308949188782452.post-81877334462572423442011-05-21T14:02:32.042-07:002011-05-21T14:02:32.042-07:00I understand both sides. I fluctuate between wanti...I understand both sides. I fluctuate between wanting to be totally anonymous in the world and 'fuck it, this is who I am, deal!' <br /><br />Perhaps you could have a public blog and keep a private more anonymous blog when you're done?Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11935194874365336867noreply@blogger.com